Every Heartbeat Organized


Play this song loudly, okay?
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Read More | CommentWatching this…
Re-imagining this…
Nodding my head to this…
“I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.”
- Anais Nin
And feeling just as tired as I look…
Dear Reader,
One of the reasons that tumbleweeds have been scooting along the blog is that (yay!) I’m in Nashville! The other reason being that (boo!), my computer has been possessed by Satan.
Coming back to Nashville always feels like coming home. And yet, with the little life I’m making for myself in Charleston, I’ll be happy to mosey on back on Monday night. And this.. you know… brings me joy and makes me feel like I’m doing pretty okay with this whole life thing.
I hope that you find yourself happy where you are, even if you’re in between where you’ve been and where you’re going.
The Opposite of Howdy,
Haley
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*even though my last name’s different. minor detail.
My mom and dad had so much fun sifting through old pictures this past weekend, and they made sure that all four of their children received a play by play of every minute. My phone was blown up by texts and emails of sweet memories from my childhood. I loved it, and I loved how much my parents loved it. The above is a small patch from the onslaught.
In other news: Isn’t my mom a total betty, y’all??
Read More | 1 CommentForgiveness: the renunciation or cessation of resentment, indignation or anger as a result of a perceived offense, disagreement, or mistake, or ceasing to demand punishment or restitution.
“Work on Forgiveness” is the message that is currently ushering me into a new season; one in which forgiveness is not just a concept to mull over, but a practice to put into place… a muscle to work. You don’t have to be a grudge-holder to completely and utterly suck at forgiving. That’s been a huge wall between me and the path to getting better at forgiveness — the thought that because I consider myself to be a kind, loving person, and don’t begrudge anyone or anything outright (right?), I must have this forgiveness thing down well enough. But I’m realizing now, more and more, that being equal parts highly sensitive and quite proud (uh… me to a capital T) is a nasty combo, and a big-ass obstruction on the path to being better at forgiving. So I’m going to work on that, okay?
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Read More | CommentMy much delayed special announcement: I have a feature in Skirt! Magazine, and I couldn’t be more thrilled about it! If you’re in Charleston, be sure to pick up a copy each month and turn to “Me & My City” to check out what I’m loving, learning, doing (and wearing!) locally.
Here’s a peek of “Me & My City” from the February issue of Skirt!, just for you.
Read More | CommentChris and I shut down Basil on our first date. Chairs on the table, waitress checking her phone, cut the music, turn up the lights, shut. it. down. I drove home that night with a fluttery heart, short breath, and a nagging desire to know that man more.
I’m happy to report that after a year and a half of dating, of living and weaving our lives within and throughout each others, I still feel that desire beating in my chest. (roaring applause!)
This past weekend wasn’t terribly eventful. We spent the first part of it on a juice cleanse (to which I say: meh). On Sunday, he tidied up and hung around the house with the pup. I went thrifting around town, in search of some key pieces to zhuzh this place up (where upon I found an AMAZING mirror! More to come on that, maybe). After dinner, we wound down, cozied up, and started discussing the things in life that we’re most passionate about. When I recite the desires of my heart out loud to him, it’s all very complicated and wordy. There’s a reason and a root for every dream, whether budding or blooming, and I aim to make certain that he knows the ends and outs of every last one of them.
Bless him.
He, on the other hand, is concise. He loves what he loves because he loves it. He wants to do what makes him happy because it makes him happy. And, you know, I just think it’s so great.
I don’t really know how else to wrap this up, so I’ll just say: Yay for accountability. Hurrah for love. It’s good to be known. I want a cheeseburger.
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Feeling stirred toward the Center tonight, which always makes me feel like I could light a match to everything I own and live in a tent in the woods forever and ever and ever. But would that be trading one sort of wandering for another?
For now, I’m happy that Centered finds me in my one bedroom apartment, with my laundry undone, my so many loved ones to call and catch up with, my too many things, my stacks of unread books, my TV white noise…
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You guys. I can’t even talk about how long it’s been since I’ve blogged. So how about let’s not? (But if we WERE to talk about it, I would go into great detail about my computer woes. There would be gnashing of teeth and sackcloth involved, and it would basically be a bummer.)
Instead, let’s talk about how it’s 2013! Just like a lot of you I’m sure, I find myself completely and utterly exilerated at the beginning of a New Year. This year, I’m exhilerated x 10 + crack. I can’t wait to share all of the exciting, creative, beautiful things 2013 is bound to offer. I’m so hopeful that , in 2013, this blog will become a place for you to share the goings on of your world as well.
Fingers crossed, intentions set, heart full (but thirsty, too).
Feist//Undiscovered Firsts
Read More | CommentThankful tonight for the reminder that I am small, I am loved, and that beauty is right here. A realization that always comes after taking a deep breath, and shifting my gaze upward. So why not do it more often?
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